No harassment
Don't threaten, insult, or repeatedly contact someone who isn't responding. Respect a "no."
Keep it appropriate
No nudity or sexually explicit content in profile photos, chat, or Community posts.
Be real
Use your own photos and honest information. Impersonation and catfishing aren't tolerated.
No bots or spam
No automated accounts, mass messaging, promotions, or scams targeting other members.
No solicitation
Don't use ndakuda to sell services, ask for money, or promote other apps and platforms.
Respect the Community board
Posts and comments are meant for genuine stories and advice. No hate speech, doxxing, or targeted attacks on members.
Anonymous Doesn't Mean Consequence-Free
Community posts are shared anonymously to encourage honesty, but every post is reviewed before it goes live and can be traced back to an account internally. Anonymity is for privacy from other members — not for evading these guidelines.
Moderation
Community posts go through a review queue before publishing. Reported profiles, messages, and posts are reviewed by our admin team, who may remove content, suspend an account, or ban a member depending on severity.
Reporting Something
If you come across a profile, message, or post that breaks these guidelines, use the report option in the app, or reach out through our Contact page if it's urgent.